It’s a delicate situation

by Azuka on July 16, 2007

…when someone who loves you,
is someone you love but not in that way.

PS: I’m not in love! I’ve been very busy, and I might not be able to blog in a long time…

44 comments

Ok….Azuka, I didn’t know you had even ventured into Girlworld. Who is she? The one that keeps calling you ‘Sexy?’

by idemili on July 16, at 2:53 am. #

Azuka, in what way? what do you mean by “in that way” can you explain further?

by twinstaiye on July 16, at 3:24 am. #

Ok, now i can believe it when my friend tells me he saw a flying cow. This is a new you. I was about to ask whether you’re allergic to love. Alas, one fine girl somewhere is messing with ya head…give it a try bro. Forget teh grammar. SHOOT!

by Ugo on July 16, at 4:28 am. #

Mmmhhh cant be easy – especially when you have to tred the tightrope of being honest but not wanting to hurt their feelings. Good luck!

by Noni Moss on July 16, at 7:02 am. #

Indeed it is a delicate and trying situation…Good luck!

by Nyemoni on July 16, at 7:08 am. #

Azuka,

I know exactly what you mean, and damn, it hurts!! real bad,(especially if you were to turn the table around), and you were to be the one ‘loving’ but not loved ‘in that way’ back. u know!!.

its really hard to get over such…

by tokunbo on July 16, at 9:28 am. #

Isn’t it just? so I know there’s always a story behind your musings … are we going to get to hear this one?

by Vickii on July 16, at 12:45 pm. #

it is a delicate situation indeed…

Keshi.

by Keshi on July 16, at 7:57 pm. #

man. i can so relate to this. what a good two line post. lol.

by Muze on July 16, at 8:16 pm. #

I know life isnt fair sha. It is a pity.

by temmy tayo on July 17, at 5:23 am. #

hmmmmmmmm

by Afropinay on July 17, at 11:44 am. #

So someone’s got a girlfriend?! Nice, Azuka…. ;-)

by mari on July 17, at 11:57 am. #

well hopefully she’ll read this and take a hint!!

by belle on July 17, at 12:05 pm. #

lol …. eeyaaaa. but why? do you have some specific qualities or preferences that she does not have?

by Jem on July 17, at 1:19 pm. #

You let them know immediately so you dont lose credibility with them..

by Ms.zee on July 18, at 2:23 pm. #

I would say as having experienced this from the other point of view it is not only delicate but painful.

by Jackal on July 19, at 7:36 am. #

YES IT IS…………….LOL

by uzo on July 19, at 11:54 am. #

Well, you just have to tell her the truth no be so.

Well, i just dropped by to let you know of a competition that is running at the africanloft.

http://www.africanloft.com

Pls, participate.

Ps: 600 words is just a page..

by pammy on July 20, at 7:31 am. #

omo

i need more

seriously

by Kafo on July 22, at 12:01 am. #

Not in that way huh? LOL!! Repent thou!! LOL!!

by Calabar Gal on July 22, at 2:07 pm. #

Azuka is 18 years old.And when you are that young,there’s only one way to love.So Azuka dear what other way is your ‘that’ way?

by Mrs Somebody on July 22, at 11:59 pm. #

Yes, what is “that” way? Please shed more light.

by ejura on July 23, at 10:00 am. #

chei.. tell me about it..

by ijeoma on July 24, at 2:20 pm. #

Eagerly awaiting part II!

by Ishtar on July 25, at 8:21 am. #

So who loves who in that way?? Xpantiate pls

by Vera Ezimora on July 25, at 10:10 am. #

oh, by the way, I’m back 2 blogger….I’m sure you have not been able 2 sleep without me. Well, worry not, Azuka, I’m here now.

by Vera Ezimora on July 25, at 10:17 am. #

it is delicate… so handle it with extreme caution…

by overwhelmed naija babe on July 25, at 11:22 am. #

I think it depends on your relationship with her, if she’s not a family member then maybe you can go with her.

You also have to consider your girl, if you have any.
If you don’t have a girlfriend and she’s not your family member, then you choose whether you like her enough to make her your girl or you just wanna keep it friendly.

by Oracle on July 25, at 7:40 pm. #

It happens all the time. Especially to me!!!!!

by delilah 3 on July 26, at 10:25 pm. #

delicate, yes…. handle with care…plus time can ake things clearer..

I loved someone who loved me but not in that way…..

by Jaja on July 27, at 11:08 am. #

Oya come and explain your self o!

by Biodun on July 30, at 1:28 am. #

Azuka, when will you give us the explanation now? Haba, how long should we wait? Pls update.

by ejura on July 30, at 2:11 am. #

Azuka, when will you give us the explanation now? Haba, how long should we wait? Pls update!

by ejura on July 30, at 2:12 am. #

It is…delicate

by Oj on July 31, at 8:11 am. #

Yikes! I don’t want to even touch this one, even if I am a comedienne. There’s nothing funny about unrequited love. Hang in there, chap!

by Lucy Dee on August 1, at 1:27 am. #

Update!!

Azuka, just because I do not love you in the way you love me does not mean that I don’t care 4 u. Someday, you’ll find some1 that loves you the way you love her…hopefully.

by Vera Ezimora on August 1, at 10:36 am. #

Yup it is…

Longest time!!

by nilla on August 1, at 1:41 pm. #

are you trying to tell us sumfink. Azuka, where have you been, dont make me come and give you a very dirty slap, my friend explain yourself..

by The Life of a stranger on August 2, at 4:01 am. #

Its a delicate situation when Azuka refuses to …. update!!!

by mochafella on August 2, at 12:38 pm. #

ha.. na wetin? I hope it iss not who I think it is.. hmm..
Hope all is well I was beginning to think u fashied me, but I think i get the message.. Sorry havent been online.. I sent u an email the other day..

Hope u are doing good.. Pele.. I miss u.. :)

by Afropinay on August 2, at 3:39 pm. #

Just try falling in love.

by temmy tayo on August 3, at 12:05 pm. #

Just try falling in love? Whatever for?

by idemili on August 4, at 10:04 am. #

where r u azuka?

by nyemoni on August 7, at 8:57 am. #

Its sooo delicate… like the boil that grows on the tongue. I share in your plight, that is of course, if its your plight!

by Endi on August 8, at 9:30 am. #